TLC
Transformational Life Counseling
Transformational Life Counseling
Between us, we bring more than a century of expertise in spirituality, psychology, and personal growth to our TLC.
We traveled the world to receive knowledge, wisdom, and blessings from venerable gurus, shamans, and Energy Psychology Masters.
We've learned and innovated transformational techniques that are remarkably fast and phenomenally effective.
Why traditional therapy doesn't work:
Most therapy is CBT — Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. But no matter how strong your good intentions, or how many affirmations you write, you cannot change your problems by changing your mind.
Why? Because your powerful subconscious "Hidden Brain" is 100% in charge. It causes reactions based on your conditioning — beliefs, experiences, epigenetics — and it reacts before your conscious mind even notices.
TLC is unique:
TLC gently and lovingly engages your subconscious to build trust, engage its cooperation for change, and its willingness to heal. When negative conditioning dissolves, positive outcomes and joy manifest naturally. ~ Expect Miracles!
Advanced TLC connects you with your Superconscious "High Self." Your Hi Self is where synchronicities, serendipities, true forgiveness (of self & others) and Agape manifest naturally. ~ Expect Miracles!
We work with clients of all ages, worldwide, via Zoom.
You promise yourself (and your therapist): "I won't react that way again. I'll stay calm. I'll be patient. I'll respond with love."
But then it happens again. The same argument. The same defensive reaction. The same hurtful words flying out of your mouth before you can stop them.
Your conscious mind observes in dismay: "Why did I just say that? I promised myself I wouldn't!"
The truth is, your subconscious reacts faster than your conscious perception. When it perceives danger or an attack on your ego, it triggers your deeper, stronger, faster subconscious reactions — milliseconds before your conscious mind can observe what's happening.
Consequently, your "conscious" self is not at fault.
Since birth you've been taught that every choice you make, every action and reaction you have, since you did it, you're responsible for it. You are to blame, shame and punish, because obviously (they believe & convince you) it's clearly your fault.
Few people realize that conscious choices are only the tip of the iceberg, so to speak. It is a perfect metaphor.
Your brilliant conscious mind, full of ideas, thoughts, beliefs, and best intentions, is comparable to the tip of an iceberg. It is everything that you can see around you — your reality — without any awareness of what goes on beneath the surface.
Your subconscious mind, also called "The Hidden Brain," is like a vast storehouse holding records of every emotional experience you've ever had, since you were in the womb. These memories are held long after they've evaporated from conscious awareness. This vast storehouse also holds the energetic blueprint of your family's ancestral lineage. According to the Bible, this lineage goes back 7 generations, and the science of epigenetics suggests the same time span.
Your Hidden Brain operates at "gut" levels. Its job is to experience, record, and learn — programming (for better or worse) — and to keep you alive. Whenever it feels threatened, by words or situations that trigger some past memory of threat or harm, it reacts so fast, it is far beyond conscious control. If your childhood was difficult, it probably has hair-trigger reactions. Your conscious mind cannot control these spontaneous reactions, it can only observe after the fact. How many times have you asked yourself, "Why did I do that?"
Typical talk therapy is cognitive and therefore not terribly effective, since most of the real problems are not centered in the conscious mind. They are only observed by the conscious mind. And they can't be changed by the conscious mind. Because the subconscious mind is running the show way behind the curtain of the conscious mind.
Your Hidden Brain is well trained to develop beliefs, to record feelings, to remember all kinds of things, especially traumas. When subconscious memories are triggered, the conditioning causes automatic reactions milliseconds before the conscious mind becomes aware of those reactions. How many times have you said, "I don't know why I did that." The conscious mind is really only the observer, and for all of its best intentions, it is still at the mercy of the deeper subconscious programming in your Hidden Brain.
The beauty of TLC is that with love and compassion it soothes and transforms the triggers. The memory isn't gone, but the emotions attached to it are released and replaced with a sense of relief and safety. No more reactions.
At the end of every TLC Session, almost every client says they feel lighter and happier. (Those heavy emotions had almost physical weight.)
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We can help you discover the real reasons your relationship is hurting —
and how to heal the subconscious issues that are causing your pain.
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In one year we helped five couples save their marriages.
In some cases we were only working with one of the partners.
When divorce is the wise choice, we help couples transform contention into cooperation, and even friendship.
Before you spend tens of thousands on divorce, let's explore transformational TLC options.
~ Expect Miracles!
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